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aging cat, animal shelter, blind, Cassidy, cats, deaf, death, Helen Krause, HOKAFI, Holly, Katarina, Rascal, special needs, volunteer
Hello, all. It’s Lemony here. The cats and I usually only post on Wednesdays, but I received word from Kim (through the comments from last week’s post) that one of our residents of SP#1–little Holly–will no longer be with us next week when I visit the room on Wednesday. Holly has been battling a number of serious health problems, but her condition has been further compromised since entering the final stages of kidney failure. It’s time to let her go.
I thought I’d send the post out in advance of Monday, so you could keep her, and Kim and Linda, in your thoughts.
Kim and Linda, if you are reading this, I want you both to know what incredible people you are. I can never express enough my gratitude and admiration for the care and kindness and compassion you bring to your work with the animals at the shelter. Thank you for supporting them during these especially difficult moments at the end of their lives and helping them to preserve their dignity.
Here are two photographs that I took of Holly on Wednesday, not knowing that they would my last images of her.
While these may be the last still images of Holly that I possess, I will always have lots of memories of Holly. I’ll note a few here below, freely, as they come to mind.
Holly was the epitome of self-possession, despite being blind and deaf and constantly disoriented. I admired her spunk and smarts, when it came to defending her territory (always near or in the water bowls). I loved to watch her when I opened the door to the porch, because she could sense the change in the air right away, and would make her way out into the fresh air and sunlight (where you see her in the photographs above). Without sight or hearing, Holly made good use of her other senses and seemed to have an affinity for the vacuum cleaner. While the other cats do whatever they can to get away from the vacuum cleaner (except for Cassidy, who amazingly seems entirely unfazed by it) Holly would come toward it and even appeared to follow it.
Holly eagerly sought attention from people in the room, when she knew they were there. She loved to be brushed. She loved lap time (if you were on the ground), and little did she know that she was competing with Rascal and Katarina ALL the time, but if she was in my lap, she got to stay in my lap, and Rascal and Kat had to wait. In fact, whenever Holly was in my lap on the porch, Rascal was always stretched out alongside my body–right up against my legs, waiting his turn. I don’t think Holly ever knew he was there.
I always noticed how at-the-ready Holly was to swipe at another cat. She was very quick with the paw, because, as far as she knew, she had to be. She was an incredible survivor.
I thought a lot about her situation in the world, and what it must be like for a cat who cannot see or hear. She spends her energy defending herself and sticking close to food and water, and then every once in a while (who knows what time feels like to her), she has a few moments of wonderful peace and rest in the warmth of the sun and fresh air. And then occasionally she’ll feel these hands wrap themselves around her body, and she’s not quite sure at first if they’re going to be giving her nasty tasting medicine, or poking her with needles, or if they’re going to treat her body to a wonderful massage and brushing. Actually, she probably did know what those hands were going to do; she could probably sense from the rhythm of the footsteps coming toward her what was going to happen.
She always seemed to know when I put my hands on her that she could relax, and that’s exactly what she would do. The amazing thing to me is that despite all that was working against her (health problems, medical treatments, blindness, deafness, disorientation, constant defense of territory, etc.), she still had a fabulous and beautiful purr. She still had the ability to trust.
I am really, really going to miss Holly. I will miss all of the wet sandy paw tracks she leaves all over the floor near her bowls. I will miss her funny little turned out front paws, her precious face, her thin little body, her trusting, sweet self, her cheek on my shoe, her head on my leg, her purr in my heart…..
Goodbye, Holly. I love you.


Oh our heart aches for you Melanie, and the shelter caretakers as well as you let Holly go gently over the bridge. Bless all of you for showing her love, tenderness, and allowing her the dignity of enjoying as much as possible her last bit of time in this life. I know she looked forward to your visits as all the HOKAFI kitties do and make no mistake, she will always be in your heart and should you feel a gentle paw on your cheek – it will be Holly thanking you for every moment you made her life as happy as it could be.
Pam (and Sam)
Thank you for your kind and thoughtful words, Pam and Sam. It means a lot to be able to share the happy and the sad moments with such caring friends I’ve made through this blogging community. Thank you for being here and for being so genuine in your support.
I’m so sorry to read this. I know this is difficult for you and everyone who took care of Holly. Cherish all the good moments and warm memories of Holly.
Thank you very much for stopping in to leave a note of support. I’m very grateful. I will, indeed, cherish my good moments and memories of Holly. It will be hard to go in on Wednesday and see with my own eyes that she is gone, but I will remember all of her favorite places in the room, and in a way, by remembering, she will still be there.
Awwww this is so sad. We have tears in our eyes.
But we second Pam and Sam: you brought her so much love and attention that you made her life a little better. She will take that love with her when she goes to the rainbow bridge and have fun with other furry friends in the water.
Purrs and hugs to you, to everyone at SP#1 and to Holly, of course.
Thank you very much for sharing in our sadness. It is a very hard time for us when we lose one of our kitties, as you know. The support from friends here in the WP community has been so deeply touching. I wish the SP#1 gang knew how much love there is out there in the world for them. I, of course, will pass your purrs and hugs on to everyone. Thank you.
So very sorry to hear about Holly. Such a very special girl. The trust she invested in you will be reward enough for the life you all gave her but her loss must weigh heavily. x
Thank you for these wonderfully kind and thoughtful words. It is so helpful to be able to share our sadness.
We learn as much from animals as from people, I think. What a joy to have known Holly and to have befriended her at the end of her life. She was lucky. And so were you.
Thank you, George. You’ve expressed exactly what I wanted to say, and that is how lucky I felt I was to have known Holly, and how much I learned from her. Little did she know what a teacher she was to all of the people around her. …
Lemony – what a nice tribute to our beautiful girl, Holly. I went in this morning before anyone arrived at the shelter to say my “goodbye” to Holly. Holly will definitely be missed in SP1.
sending soft purrs to Holly’s caretakers and to you Miss Melanie…it is so clear how much you loved this little Kitty and respected her spirit and spunk. She will run and play and see and hear OTRB. All of you who work and volunteer at this special shelter are true unsung heroes and you are also very lucky people to be able to experience all of these special need cats who show you their REAL SELF…paw pats and leaky eyes, Savannah
Thank you so much, Savannah. You have no idea how much your words touch our hearts. I think we really do see the “real selves” of these sweet ones, and what a wonderful privilege that is. …
ah yes, I suspect that you all are extremely appreciative knowing that you experience these cats in a way no other humans will take the time and effort in which to pawticipate…you are all the fortunate ones…paw pats, Savannah
You express their essence so well. It was a sad day, but we all know her health was declining. Ruth, who volunteers on Tuesday stopped in to see her and asked to help me with her last voyage over the bridge. She purred until the very end. We were strong for her and had to cry for her and so many others afterward. She was a wee bit of herself at the end. When you see her pics from the beginning til now, what a changed kitty. She came to us in Nov. 2011 so we did not have the sweet little girl for very long. I am so glad we were able to take her in to safety and out of harms way. Now we must give Billy Bob lots of kitty attention as he seemed to really bond with her. Linda said he quided her in the door the other day.